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Creating a Parenting Plan

When creating a parenting plan it's important to make arrangements that work for your family, and are in the best interests of your children. No two families are the same so there is no master-parenting plan that will work for all.

Here are some common examples of how time is shared between separated parents...
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Every other extended weekend

(Friday pm - Monday am)

Advantages:
  • Transition is from school or childcare so minimises potential conflict
  • Both parents are able to be involved in weekend activities like sport
Disadvantages:
  • 12 days is a long separation period
  • Can be stressful on the residential parent who is essentially a sole carer

Every other weekend and an overnight stay midweek every week

(Friday pm Monday am; Wednesday pm - Thursday am)

Advantages:
  • No longer than 7 days separation between the child and parent
  • Transition is from school or childcare so minimises potential conflict
  • Both parents are able to be involved in daily activities like school work
Disadvantages:
  • 7 days can be too long a separation period for some children
  • Can be difficult if parents live far away or if non residential parent has inflexible work hours

Split midweek's and alternate weekends

(Parent A: Monday pm - Wednesday am and Parent B: Wednesday pm - Friday am each week, alternating Friday pm - Monday am)

Advantages:
  • Only has a 5 day separation from each parent
  • Transition is from school or childcare so minimises potential conflict
  • Both parents are able to be fully involved in the child's daily activities
Disadvantages:
  • Can be difficult if parents live far away
  • Requires both parents to have strong support systems and a level of flexibility with their work

All weekends and midweek split

(Friday pm - Saturday pm or Sunday am; Saturday pm - Sunday pm or Monday am; midweek divided as above)

Advantages:
  • No longer than 3 days separation between the child and parent which can be beneficial for preschool children
  • Both parents are fully involved in the child's life
Disadvantages:
  • Can be difficult if parents live far away
  • Requires both parents to have strong support systems and a level of flexibility with their work

Frequent visits during a week, no overnights

Advantage:
  • Suitable for very young children
Disadvantages:
  • Can be difficult if parents live far away
  • Residential parent is primary caregiver

Alternative weeks

Advantages:
  • Children are able to build meaningful relationships with both parents
  • Both parents and their extended families are fully involved in the child's life
Disadvantages:
  • Can be difficult if parents live far away
  • Can be financially challenging running two homes

What Things Do We Need To Consider When Making A Parenting Plan?

A parenting plan can be a formal or informal agreement between parents that covers how the needs of your children are going to be taken care of. It will include as much or as little detail as is necessary to make it work. As your children grow older and have different needs, these arrangements will probably need to change.

Typically parenting plans cover areas such as:
  • Where the children will live
  • Time spent with each parent and the wider family
  • Financial arrangements
  • Education
  • Religion
  • Children's medical needs or concerns
  • Discipline and household rules
  • Holidays and special events
  • How conflict will be resolved

A good parenting plan will allow for flexibility as the needs and circumstances of all involved change.

A good parenting plan will allow for flexibility as the needs and circumstances of all involved change. Use the Two Homes Organiser to map out your proposed parenting arrangements. Once entered, effortlessly share the details with the other parent for discussion and consideration.

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What if I think my children and I are unsafe?

The safety of you and your children is always paramount. If you feel that it would be unsafe for your children to spend time and/or communicate with the other parent then limited contact may be best.

If you're in this situation you will need to show the court that contact with the other parent would put your children at serious physical or psychological harm. The court then has the ability to order that the children don't communicate or spend time with the other parent. Please be aware that this is very rare. As an alternative, the court may order that the other parent only be allowed supervised visitation.

The Family Court provides safe places where children can spend supervised time with a parent or where children can be dropped off and picked up before and after seeing the other parent.

If you're concerned about the safety of you or your children please get advice and assistance from a professional.

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