The key to successful post divorce dating is to have fun with it. Let go of your expectations and past hurts and enjoy getting out there and meeting new people.
1. Don't Go On And On About Your Divorce Or Your Ex
Be open and honest with your date but keep it brief. There is nothing more off putting than having to listen to someone going on about their failed relationship and ex.
2. Be Yourself
Dating is the process of getting to know each other. You can both only do this if you relax and be yourself.
3. Ask Questions
Ask your date questions and actively listen to what they have to say. The more you learn about your date the easier it will be to work out if you're interested in seeing them again.
4. If you're Interested Say So
Unless your date is psychic, they will not know that you are interested in them unless you show them through your actions and words.
5. Date For Fun
Give yourself the opportunity to enjoy meeting new people. Take it slow, remember there's no rush or need to jump straight into another serious relationship.
6. Don't Take Rejection Personally
It's important to remember that just as you won't always be interested in meeting some people again, others will not be interested in meeting you again either. Don't get caught up in it, just know that you're one person closer to meeting someone great!
7. Be Open
Minimise expectations and go into a date with an open mind. If you can do this you will be able to make the most of the date and even if you don't meet ‘the one’ for you you’ll still have fun and maybe come out with a funny story or two!
8. Flirt, Flirt, Flirt
Flirting is fun, energizing and ultimately can help you to connect with your date. Keep your date light and playful. . If it’s your first date remember not to over analyse your date in an attempt to work out if they are a potential spouse!
9. Balance Is Key
You may be eager to date but don't forget to make time for yourself as well as your friends and family. Date if you feel ready but don't make it your whole life.
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